IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN LOVE

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IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN LOVE 

Nov 30, 2008, 2:11 am





I was learnt about love and i want share it with you...



If you find yourself in love with someone who doesn't love you, be gentle with your self. There is nothing wrong with you.Love just didn't choose to rest in the others person heart. If you find someone else in love with you, and you don't love him/her,feel honored that love came and called at your door,but gently refuse the give you can't return. Do not take advantage, do not couse pain.



How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even our lives and ways are different.



If you fallin love with another, and he/she fallin love with you, andthen love chooses to leave, don't try to reclaim it or assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.



Remember that you don't choose love.



Love chooses you.All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery whe its come into your life. Feel the way it fills to you, overflowing then reach out in kindness to show your appreciation. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor of spirit.Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lover go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to took at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that can be made to grow only by giving it away.



Remember this and keep it to your heart.



Love has its own time,its own seasons,and its own reasons for coming and going. You cant bribe it or course it, or reason it in to saying. You can only embrace it whe its arrive and give it away when its comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been...and always will be mystery. Be glad that it came to live for momment in your life...





       ~With Love & care Dinda~